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This category lists scammers who pretend to be single men and scam women, usually out of money. The typical story is a wealthy businessman who got somehow stranded in Nigeria and needs your financial aid to be able to come back to his home country where he promises to marry you.


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Dating scammer sgt.James Lingo,ssgt. James Lingo, Lingo James, Lingo James Smit

Name: sgt.James Lingo,ssgt. James Lingo, Lingo James, Lingo James Smit


Alice, Texas, United states
real location : NIGERIA

Other Comments:
The profound stolen photos of sgt. Lingo James I used to see on many social nets and dating sites, so knew about this scammer. It
was his ever first attempt to contact me. Since I did not responded his last mail I hope there will be silence with him.

HELLOOOOOO So sorry to infringe on your privacy, Its said that 'A picture is worth a thousand words, but when I saw yours it was more than words could explain. The charming profile is resistible, ...

hello can i no you more and can you plz give me your yahoo id so that we can chat better, this is mine sgt.lingojames at yah oo . com, so you can add me.. and we can get to no each other better from there and let see maybe it may even extend more than that if God say yes to use....... ssgt.James

hello are you there

HI, i am online now so i want you to add on hotmail messenger now its, so we can talk better from there talk to you soon

Well i think here is a little you need to know about me, I have a son he 10years old....... I lost his mom, my wife 8 years ago.. due to cancer of the lung.. don't want to go into that now.. I am the first child of my parent and i have a sister of 23 years of age now in the army too which she is is deployed to Germany for a complete course, and I Lost my parents after giving birth to my sister in an auto crash accident...

Am working with the Us Army currently deployed to Afghanistan as a special force Candidate and with the 56th Armored Brigade, 28th Infantry Division. The Special Forces Teams we are among the most specialized combat forces in the Army.We experience rigorous mental and physical training in order to carry out our missions in a quick and extremely effective manner. I am also a former US Marine infantryman, having served 8 active years with different infantry units, from Camp Middleton, CA. (1st battalion, 9th Marine Regiment, and 2nd battalion, 1st Marine Regiment) and Camp Jejune, NC (3rd Battalion, 6th Marine Regiment).'Let me say that I am an Army reservist who has been called to active duty I volunteered to come, feeling it was my duty to use my skills to help bring peace to this world whether it be in mortal combat, or using my brain to help the people here create the conditions for peace. Thousands of innocents died here in Kabul where I am stationed. And for them, and all the survivors, I would gladly lay down all i am skilled for if I could make a difference, and save one two three, four, ten, hundred or thousand of people. Mankind will not continue without sacrifice by some of us.. Well working as a military man has been an hectic work here in the war zone.. Am from Clayton Ohio, I live in in Alice, Texas United States.. I have 2 birds, 2 dogs, 2 cars and a house in Texas.. in the military camp....

I am a honest, outgoing, loving, caring, sensual person. I am generally a little bit on the quiet/shy side. I'm a happy, friendly cuddly Lonely Man who enjoys life. I have a low circle of friends for wining and dining, trips to the cinema or theater, walks on the beach or in the countryside and cozy nights in. I value honesty, fidelity and companionship but also need space to pursue my own interests. I see myself as intelligent, with a good sense of humor and I don't take myself too seriously.I guess I am just a simple romantic at heart. I truly believe in open communication and affection.

In my spare time I love listening to music and doing some House chore, I also tap dance to keep fit but spend most of the time laughing with my friends. I have always danced all my life and really enjoy it, it's good fun and great exercise too. I like bowling and going to the cinema. I like to go to different restaurants and country pubs with good food and log fires in the winter.

I love life and people. Two things people notice in me are my eyes and my smile. I am very outgoing, independent, strong willed, quick witted, intelligent, sexy, sensuous, romantic, sincere, caring, and loving. I love cooking, gardening, music (all types), dancing, boating, sailing, beach walks, chilling with friends or just by myself. I'm just a nice, wholesome man with traditional values. The simple things in life really appeal to me: home, my son and sister, friends, good food and cuddling with that perfect woman which am about to get but with you i believe i will be happy i guess.

I believe in goodness & enjoy exploring myself and others. i take time to listen & to consider. kindness, passion & generosity are most important - yet i am not afraid of confrontation & when unavoidable have endured suffering to come out all the stronger & wiser because of it. i look forward to sharing knowledge & learning new stuff. the first day in a new country is my favorite thing - besides kissing... i believe life is hard but good, tomorrow is not promised, and nothing is better than sharing knowing glances with your partner and having a good time together.

All I want is to meet the woman that i could spend the rest of my with .. someone that i could do new thing with and that will see the world in a different shape with me.... I really don't know how serious about finding the right person for myself but am hoping to know more about you because i will be retiring from the army as soon as am out of here so that i could start a new life fresh with my dream woman ... A woman full of love, respect and will never think of cheating on me .... well i will say am a happy man and i have all i want to leave for, a comfortable life and a smooth nice one............. a man that i could put my mind at that will claim my beneficiary and my life will be depend on her and she will always be there for me always...... i want to be happy for the rest of my life and i love to live in a house of me and her, plan with her about the future together........

and am hereby telling you to atleast open a yahoo mail all because of me so that we can communicate better in yahoo messenger better...... lingojames

another mail and poem from him (poem of course copied from internet what I told him and he admitted)

want to no you‏

Am james, i am 48 years now and am looking for the right woman to take care of me baby,,,,,, i want you in my life and if truly you want a man that will take care of you with love care joy peace money and so on just let chat and get to no me more baby, baby i just want you to try and open a mail all because of me and see what you have to dod for each other baby, am worth millions baby,,,,, wanting to no you....

this poem for you

Our love is unconditional, we knew it from the start
I see it in your eyes, you can feel it from my heart
From here on after let's stay the way we are right now
And share all the love and laughter
That a lifetime will allow

You will always be the miracle that makes my life complete
And as long as there's a breath in me, I'll make yours just as sweet
As we look into the future, it's as far as we can see
So let's make each tomorrow be the best that it can be

And if along the way we find a day it starts to storm
You have got the promise of my love to keep you warm

I cross my heart and promise to
Give all I've got to give to make all your dreams come true
In all the world you'll never find a love as true as mine

Email Sender:
At Sun, 8 Apr 2012 11:41:43 -0700 (PDT), the email sender sent you an email from the IP address located in Nigeria.
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MTN Nigeria

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at the same time he corresponded with other lady who also put comments on it

ok my woman, i will send it tonight baby and i want to thank you so so much baby you have really made day so better and grateful baby and i will send you every detail tonight baby and hope you did not forget how much i need baby. thanks so much

Hello...... Can i say thank you for your help and i want you to get it in mind that i will get you the money back i make it a promise baby and i really crossed my heart baby, and i promise you wont lose your house baby and am hereby thanking you so so much baby and am telling you to pay the money here baby, it is who will get it to the doctor baby...
Names hidden
City.. Castleberry
State.. Alabama
Zip-code.. 36432
So she will get it to the doctor and i will be so glad if you get it done quickly baby and you should mail me the payment information so that it can get to the doctor quick baby..... thanks

His last mail to me :

hello again‏

our future together......
I wanted to tell you today how good I feel about us and our future. I enjoyed being with you. It seems that everything we do is even more meaningful because it isn't just for today ... it's for always. You make me feel really happy, and I'll always love making you feel special too.

I'm glad that I can count on you to be there when I need someone to understand, to encourage, to reassure me and I hope you realize you can always count on me too. We share so much of our lives, but it's nice to know that we can still go our own ways now and then and somehow, the more we grow as individuals, the closer we become.

I'm so satisfied with all we have together, and I'm sure that those feelings will last ... that I'll cherish you through a lifetime of beautiful tomorrows. I want you to know how pleased I am to be a part of your life, how much it means to me to know I'll always be in love with you and only you!

Love always,

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